There is a quiet beauty in the nuance of life. If you look too hard you will never see them, you will never find your calling, no purpose, no money to support the "it" you can't find. Do more and it will find you. "If you love a flower don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and ceases to be what you love. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation." -Osho
Love the process of doing not just the final product.
Don't pick it let it grow.